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Friday, October 4, 2013

The Pressure is Off ~ by Debra Courtney


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The Pressure Is Off
by Debra Courtney

"Cast your cares on the LORD..." Psalm 55:22

I have just taken on a new class, one that is so challenging.  I asked myself, "Girl, what have you gotten yourself into, by thinking you could do this?"  I felt and am pressured!  Has this ever happened to you? 

I am reminded about the time a family member and I went to Dublin, Ireland.  We decided we didn’t need to take an all-inclusive bus trip like the other boring tourists.  No, we would just tour Ireland on our own at our own pace and enjoy the trip so much more!  So we flew into Dublin’s airport and went to get the car at the car rental place there on the airport grounds.  I asked for a map of Dublin, and when I looked at it I could not believe what I saw.  I said to myself, “Girl, what have you gotten yourself into?”  Then when we get to the car, the steering wheel was on the left hand side, and I had to drive on the left hand side, I looked at the person with me and said, “Girl, what have we gotten ourselves into?!”  Needless to say we were pressured with what we had gotten ourselves into!  Back in the States before I booked the trip, I thought to myself, “I can handle this," but when it came time to handling it, I was extremely pressured.  My stomach was all in knots the whole trip while I was driving.  It was a pleasant trip when I was not driving.

Now I find myself in the same way, but this time I really prayed and asked for and got many counselors in order to obtain wisdom before even signing up for this class.  I am in my second week of this writing, and let me tell you I am experiencing the pressure.  This is a challenging class.  One-fourth of the class is on their 2nd or 3rd time of retaking the course.

I woke up early this morning thinking about this class.  I usually wake up in a spirit of prayer and worship, but not this morning.  I woke up in a spirit of pressure and thinking about this class.  Had I really missed it in my prayers?  Had I really missed it in listening to my many counselors that told me this class is a challenge?  I was at peace when I signed up for it.  I was at peace when I prayed about it way before the class started.  I had told the Lord, "If this class is not for me, shut the door.  If it is, open the door.  I am here to do your will, not my will.  The decision lies with you, Lord, not me." 

Have you ever had something happen in your life when you really thought you had to come through?  This was my thinking this morning.  After I had gotten up from my quiet time, I went and got a cup of coffee.  (I don’t like coffee that much).  I didn’t go to the new workout class I had just signed up for.  I was feeling the pressure of this other class.  Then it came to my spirit.  “Debra, why are you under pressure so much?  The pressure is mine.  It is my job to see you through this class.  Roll your pressure upon me.  You are to do your part and trust me to do my part.”  Talk about a revelation!

These things we know about giving our troubles to the Lord and laying them at His feet for He cares for us, we hear this preached and taught all the time, but I had gotten myself into such a state of panic and pressure that even my time alone with the Lord (my Quiet Time) was disrupted by thoughts of defeat.  It is not like me to be that way.  Nothing is to take first place in our lives.  First place belongs to God Almighty, then all the rest falls into its proper place! 

Now I have “NO PRESSURE!”  The “PRESSURE” is the Lord's; He is my provider.  He can handle it!  Girls, do I breathe better!  

  • What in your life is causing you pressure?  
  • How have you been handling it thus far?  
  • What is the Father encouraging you to do even now to roll that pressure onto His capable shoulders?

Debra Courtney’s life goal is to inspire and motivate women globally to become all they have been created and designed to be by using the guiding principles of their Creator’s word in gaining wisdom, understanding their designed-given personality identities, and creating their independence!  

“I want women today to be transformed out of your lack of fulfillment, frustration, and pain through the benefits of coaching; to stand and run with the promises that have already been promised to you by your Creator; to be challenged and to be stirred up to go places that you have never dreamed of; to be motivated in wisdom where you can live a life above and beyond in the exploration and discovery found in the “who” of how you were created. 

Coaching is ideal for taking you through this process, for closing the gap between your “Here and Now” to “There”.  Coaching gives you the ability to explore and discover the life you were designed to live according to the values and priorities that affirm your purpose  and passion and define “who” you are!” 

Your words create an environment to enhance your living experiences in ways this world cannot.  Your words create an environment to enhance your journey in ways this world cannot. 

Monday, September 16, 2013

He Never Lets Go - By Cheryl Laurenza


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He Never Lets Go 
By Cheryl Laurenza

“'Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,' says the LORD, who has compassion on you."Isaiah 54:10 

“I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go, and I will bring you back to this land.  I will not leave you until I have done what I have promised you.”  Genesis 28:15  

“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”  Matthew 28:20

This has been the theme of my life for a while now.  What a journey!!  It would take a book to chronicle all I would like to share, so let me just cover the last couple months of His leading.

This has been a season, a time of letting go, of removing, of painful loss and the promise of Hope.  Sometimes God does not seem to make sense, and if we are not mindful and alert, accepting His sovereignty, we can become very fearful and disillusioned and lose hope.  Yes, these are all normal human emotions that we feel ... for an a while, but we cannot afford to stay there.  We must process and move through it.  We need others that are safe, love us, listen, and intercede. 

My 85 -year-old Dad's failing health, how it is impacting my Mom, and some other family situations have been weighing on us for quite some time.  We have been able to visit maybe every 6-8 weeks in this past year due to leaving my job. 

In this last July, it became clearer as to what was going on behind the scenes.  I sensed God leading us back to New England, even with a time frame of “by November" deeply impressed on my spirit and heart.  We tried to explain it away, rationalize, and continue on, yet there was that still, small voice that we have become familiar with over the years.  I had been praying for clear direction, so wanting to be there, but conflicted, of course, with the life here in Georgia, people we love, and the practice.  Yet, so many things began to happen - people, devotionals, quiet time encounters - and a sense of peace confirmed this in our hearts.  

We listed our house 2-1/2 weeks ago, and it sold yesterday.  I had been outside praying, then at the office alone, crying out to God to in His mercy sell this quickly, as it is too painful to remain, and also to confirm His leading.  God had reminded me over and over with the above verses that we were not alone; He was holding on and would be with us through it all, no matter what comes.  Closing is set almost on the date of our arrival in Georgia 17 years ago!

A friend on an airplane 2 years ago said, “Cheryl, God will use you not because of where you live but because of whose you are."  Prophetic words Pastor Sean. 

I want to encourage all of you to hang in there, seek His face, pray without ceasing, and far more than all the "doing", to listen to that still small voice, quiet your heart and mind, and trust His gentle leading.  For some reason, we have to make it all logical, fit in a box, and know all the ins and outs.  I’m a planner, so I have that propensity, yet I have learned over the years to be more contemplative but trust and walk as I continue to listen.  Yes, I have been scared, sad, shed tears etc., and that’s okay, but still keep moving.  My husband said, “It’s like a river.  God is the current and you have to jump in and let Him move, but it takes trust." 

Trusting....

Cheryl Laurenza, MA, LPC, NCC
CPCS, ACS
The Refuge Counseling Center, LLC
3211 South Cherokee Lane
Suite 640
Woodstock, GA 30188
P: 678 693 2281
F: 888 971 3910
www.refugecounselingcenter.org

You Never Let Go
By Matt Redman 

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death
 your perfect love is casting out fear
and even when I'm caught in the middle of the storms of this life 
I won't turn back
I know you are near

And I will fear no evil
For my God is with me
And if my God is with me
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear? 

(Chorus :)
Oh no, you never let go
Through the calm and through the storm
Oh no, you never let go
In every high and every low
Oh no, You never let go
Lord, You never let go of me 

And I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on 
a glorious light beyond all compare and there will be an end to these troubles but until that day comes we’ll live to know you here on the earth

(Chorus)

Yes, I can see a light that is coming for the heart that holds on and there will be an end to these troubles But until that day comes still I will praise you, still I will praise you 

(Chorus 2x's)
© 2006 Sparrow
YOU NEVER LET GO LYRICS - MATT REDMAN