Showing posts with label God's love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God's love. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Garlands of Grace ~ A Guest Post from Dorothy Johnson



…as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.  Psalm 103:12

I often walk in the cool of the morning when we vacation at the beach. Although the places we go aren’t noted for large shells, I invariably return with a handful of small ones. I love the diversity of designs and find pleasure in even the tiniest specimen.

One morning, I noticed that many of the shells swept in by the tide still held a bit of water that sparkled in the sun. My thoughts turned to God’s promise that when we trust in Jesus, we become vessels of His living water, offering refreshment to others.

However, as I continued on my way, I also saw lots of empty shells. On close examination, I found most had a perfectly round hole that looked as if it had been drilled there. Any water they held when they landed on the beach had quickly drained out. They were lovely, and in some cases, the openings weren’t immediately apparent, but they were still empty.

Just like me sometimes, I thought. Some days I may look pretty good, but it’s as if the enemy of my soul has found my weakest spot and pierced it through ever so precisely. Whatever joy or evidence of God’s presence is there, leaks out before I even leave home.

Next, I noticed a scallop shell with a jagged gap marring its otherwise beautiful exterior. Looks like you’ve had some hard knocks. I know what it’s like to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. But you are still lovely. I picked it up and cradled it in my palm.



Before I knew it, I was gathering up all the holey shells in my path because suddenly I was able to see beauty and purpose in each one. I’d string them on a thread or cord to create a garland or necklace.

Isn’t that what our loving Father does with us? He’s just waiting to pick us up, wash us off and restore our souls. He doesn’t disqualify us because of our flaws and failures, past or present. In fact, I believe when we’re most injured by our own foolishness, He treats us with extra-tender care. All He asks is that we admit we need a Savior. When we seek His forgiveness, He makes us perfect in His sight through Jesus Christ.

 I like to think He might add us, one-by-one, to a scarlet cord, creating a beautiful garland to wear over His heart. The strands are never ending.



Bind us together, Lord, with cords of Your love.




Dorothy writes from her home on a ridge overlooking the Arkansas River in Little Rock. She has been involved in women’s ministries for nearly forty years, teaching Bible studies. Her passion is for people, especially women, to understand their value in Jesus.


Connect with Dorothy at her blog: http://reflectionsfromdorothy.blogspot.com/




Friday, June 27, 2014

"When You’re Caught in a Cave" by Jo Ann Fore

He loves me.

He loves me not.

I pluck the blooms from the ox-eye daisy, each falling petal representing a truth that momentarily binds.

I’m loved; I’m gonna be okay.
I’m unloved; how will I ever make it?

How does one hold simultaneously to two contradictory opinions yet believe both?  Doublethink.  That’s what George Orwell (in the novel, Nineteen Eighty-Four) calls this, and we do it far too often, this holding tight to opposing beliefs about God’s love for us.

He loves me.  He loves me not. 

We know this fullness of God’s love, his grace, yet we don’t know.  We believe, yet our doubt somehow overrides our belief.

Why are we here, in this land of doublethink?  I imagine it’s the same question God asked of Elijah, the bold robust mountain man, who held an incredible faith... on most days, anyway.  There was that time he contemplated suicide, that time the backlash of emotional abuse, threats, and manipulation had skewed his perspective. (Read 1 Kings 19 for the whole story.)

Elijah should have been celebrating a great victory; he had just killed all the false prophets of Baal at Mount Carmel.  Unfortunately that slaughter didn’t sit well with Queen Jezebel, a queen who had puppeted her husband, King Ahab, for years as she led an entire nation in Baal-worship and idolatry, but in one short afternoon, the queen had lost control over that nation, all because of Elijah.

Enraged, Jezebel threatened him, and Elijah believed her, eventually landing crumpled and depressed, tucked inside a cave.

There’s such a danger in drifting, the gradual slipping away from truth.

Elijah well knew God’s miracle-performing power and provision, yet he feared for his life because he doubted God could or would protect him this time.  He gave in to Jezebel’s threats, all the while knowing God had the power to save him.  God had proven Himself faithful, but sometimes even that is not enough for those of us with deep-seated hurts.

Elijah had fallen prey to lies.  At a time when he could have been used to make a difference, he fled. With two differing beliefs raging war within him, he leaned heavier on the side of deception. Rather than focusing on all the powerful and supernatural moments he had experienced with God, Elijah chose to believe that an idol-worshiping, prophet-killing queen was bigger than the God he had long served and loved.

Isn’t that the natural bent of a wounded heart?

Elijah started to believe his own lie, accept it as truth. {You hear something long enough, you start to do that.}  But God offers a fresh perspective: The shadows in the cave can lie, bending the Light, but they cannot break it.

Without anger or judgment or blame, God ultimately challenged Elijah {challenges us} to stretch his eyes beyond his current circumstances. God offered Elijah an assignment that I’m certain he wasn’t expecting:  Go back and anoint others.

Purely my speculation here, but I suspect a great anointing is birthed in the pits of pain. ‘Cause that’s just the sort of thing God can do in a cave.

Deeper Still:  Consider a time you felt trapped; what is one thing you could have done to confront any negative feelings?


Jo Ann Fore is a popular blogger and the author of the recently released When A Woman Finds Her Voice: Overcoming Life’s Hurts & Using Your Story to Make a Difference.  Jo Ann serves a powerful promise of hope to a woman’s heart, her encouraging words and coaching experiences helping many women transform broken lives into beautiful ones. 

Connect with Jo Ann online at www.JoAnnFore.com and @JoAnnFore.  You'll also find her at the new www.FaithHappenings.com!

Friday, January 24, 2014

Hope During Times of Prolonged Suffering - Part 2 - By Jennifer O. White


Hope During Times of Prolonged Suffering – Part 2


In our last post, we explored the risk of hoping when suffering seems to be endless.

My friend needs to see the ship of her suffering nearing the port where she and her family get to step off. Can you relate to that? Are you watching someone hope for a glimpse of hope in the present circumstances?

Our faith is in God who promises -- hope is very real.

Corrie Ten Boom (a lady who has earned the right to talk about hope during prolonged suffering) once said, ”God doesn’t have problems. He only has plans.”


In Today is Your Best Day, Roy Lessin teaches us that “God makes each day fit perfectly into His plans for you. God made this day so you could glorify Him. He made this day so that He could draw you closer to His heart. He made this day so that you could see your life from faith’s point of view.”

On day 1105 of your debilitating and bankrupting saga, could you see life from faith’s point of view? (I am sure if I were able, it would not be from my own strength.)

These words from 1 Corinthians 13 blew a refreshing wind into my sail as I searched for hope for my friend:

We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!

But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation:

Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly.
And the best of the three is love.
 1 Corinthians 13:12-13 MSG

Love.

We’ve explored the faith in God lived out by the suffering Job, Paul, and Corrie Ten Boom. We dared to repeat the words “Today is my best day because God can be trusted with my life.” Let’s look at the best, the greatest of the three words: Love.

God’s love for my hope-starved friend is extravagant and beyond our comprehension. (Ephesians 3:18-20) But what if for the moment, maybe for a while, she can’t grasp it because if just feels like trying to hold Jell-O?

What can we do on her behalf? On your dear one’s behalf?

We can call on His glory strength to empower each one who suffers to know – to experience - the depth of His love while suffering.

We can believe that God IS at work in this one who suffers, and is able to accomplish MORE than we can dare to dream or ask Him to do.

We can dare to dream of what He can do. If He can sustain and rescue Corrie Ten Boom, then how COULD He help our friend? List 1000 ways. Seriously! What more God honoring thing could you do than declare that He is able to do 1000 loving things for your friend. Dreaming of what God is able to accomplish is worshipping Him.

Love that suffering friend extravagantly. Ask God to show you what that looks like in each situation. His glory strength is ready to empower you to ….. show up consistently, pray with big faith, and rally 100 people to join you in interceding, speak blessings into their hearts and those who are enduring with them. Trust that He will supply all of your needs while He uses you to hope on the behalf of the one who is weary of hoping.

Love extravagantly!



Jennifer O. White is an author, speaker and encourager to those seeking a life of hope, peace and confidence. You are invited to join her on a brave life, marriage, and world-changing adventure with Jesus at her blog: Prayerfully Speaking, and her free ebook: Prayers Spoken, Lives Changed: God’s Extraordinary Love in 18 Ordinary Lives. Check out her upcoming book for new brides here.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

"The Wink! Eves' Rip Off - Part 1" by Debra Courtney


What is man that You are mindful of him, and the son of [earthborn] man that You care for him?” Psalm 8:4 AMP

I am amazed at the extent and tenacity of how badly the enemy wants to violate and destroy especially the female gender.  He has been planning and plotting our destruction sense the day we were born.  He has watched our every move, mood, and conversation with wanton eyes and straining ears.  

He has great passion and unlimited perseverance to each detail of mine and your life, so that he knows what buttons to push, buttons of anger, desire, betrayal, lies, contempt, and deception.  Satan lusts after us.  He uses others to fulfill his plans to deceive us and trap us to exploit us. 

Desire can be a tool used in the form of manipulation.  The power of suggestion is a very powerful manipulative force.  Suggestion has so many faces, such as desire, jealousy, and envy. 

I grew up seeing a woman trying to complete her husband.  A lot of us think that we need men to complete us; they cannot and never will.  Only God can complete us. 

God saw that Adam was incomplete.  He needed a help mate.  Woman was created to complete man’s purpose, not to complete his person.  Adam was already created as far as a man could be created.  When God finished forming the dust of the earth to form Adam, the creation of Adam was complete.  God was done with Adam.   

However, there is a special enmity, a special conflict between the woman and the enemy.  There is a special warfare.  The enemy is especially attracted to woman.  Every soul birthed comes through us.  We birth the very thing that is to bring Glory to God, and the enemy wants it with every fiber of his being.  He knows that we were designed to bring forth humanity that is God's special creation of all creation.  

If we understand how very, very important this is to God, then we especially need to be on guard against the enemies seeking whom he may desire.  Yes, it is man who plants the seed, but it is the woman who is designed to bring forth the seed, the baby, the human soul to praise and glorify God.  As we grow older through adolescence and teen years, the enemy cleverly watches us, being so “nosey” in everything we do and say. 

Discern your words.  They are a powerful force that calls forth your future!  Whether you know it or not, you are calling things that are not as though they were.  

Our eternal enemy patiently stalks us.  He is very patient.  We have to learn how to outlast the enemy.  How we do that is to be more patient than he is.  At the right time, he can subtly sabotage us to meet his vision instead of God's vision.  If we allow him to do that, we have a great problem. 

Jesus talked about the cares of this world in Matthew 13:22 says, As for what was sown among thorns, this is he who hears the Word, but the cares of the world and the pleasure and delight and glamour and deceitfulness of riches choke and suffocate the Word, and it yields no fruit."

Be a good fruit bearer!  Watch out for the wink!

Friday, November 1, 2013

Looking for God's Blessing - by @Lori_Kennedy

Photo by Amelia Grace Photography



For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
(Jeremiah 29:11 NIV)



I recently went to the poorest county in West Virginia on a mission trip with my church.  We were planning to work in the clothes closet and the food pantry.  We were also planning to have a women’s retreat, including dinner, while we were there.  Several of us were also scheduled to do some neighborhood visits with a local missionary.  There were fifteen of us, and most of the women were between ten and twenty years older than I am. 

Four of us headed out with the local missionary to the mountain hollers to visit some of the poorest families in the county.  As we drove the curvy roads up into the mountains, the surroundings looked familiar, and my stomach began to turn as old feelings of pain and shame invaded my heart.  My dad’s second wife was from the mountain hollers of Virginia.  We would visit her parents often and had spent many a holiday during my childhood years driving roads that looked eerily similar to these.  Memories of molestation by a step-uncle during the Christmas that I was eleven assaulted my brain and threw me into a melancholy mood. 

We arrived back at the camp, and I went to the dorm and just let the tears flow.  I truly didn’t realize I would be affected this way, but I also recognized that I needed to get this poison out.  I trusted God’s character and acknowledged that this was another layer of healing and that I would have to peel this layer back in order to reveal a new tender layer and move forward in my healing and relationship with God. 

Now here’s the amazing part.  Since I lived with my dad and more than one stepmother from the age of seven, and since my biological mother was not very present in my upbringing, I have always struggled with an empty “mommy love” place in my heart.  These precious women came around me.  They prayed with me; they loved me; they hugged on me; they treasured me; they celebrated me.  They allowed me the opportunity to heal in their safe and soothing presence.  It was a beautiful and precious picture of God’s love and redemption.  It was such a secure way to walk through those moments of grief that I was facing in order to take that big leap forward in healing. 

These precious moments reminded me that God’s plans for me are good and that God’s character is good….always.









Wednesday, October 23, 2013

"The Antidote for My Wounded, Angry Heart" By Jennifer White


Photo by Creative Common Image

I am a recovering people pleaser, so my list of enemies has been relatively short.  Even with all my efforts to be everyone’s favorite, there have been a few people I couldn’t please. 

The words of Mary DeMuth lanced my recently wounded and inflamed heart.  In Wall Around Your Heart:  How Jesus Heals You When Others Hurt You, Mary reminds us how Jesus dealt with His foes:    

“He offered grace to those who violated His laws.  He dignified outcasts.  He engaged Himself in the very world that put Him to death.  Jesus is our example of openhearted living; of exhibiting wild love that dared to wash the feet of Judas, who betrayed Him; of reinstating Peter, who denied Him thrice.  Jesus, in His divine irresistibility  welcomed all, loved all, endured all.”  All!  

I’ve been trying to swallow this bitter reality.  I have been Jesus’ enemy.  I have: 
-       Relented too many times to premarital sex
-       Chosen divorce
-       Lied about my sin to protect my reputation
-       Chewed relentlessly on the faults of my husband
-       Broadcasted the faults of a family member like a spewing hydrant 

Yet, he lets me wear this robe of His righteousness.  He calls me friend.  His mercy for my attitude, my irresponsibility, and broken promises to Him, others, and myself is new every morning! 

God is love.  He loves me with 1 Corinthians 13 love.  He is patient with me while I struggle to grasp the gospel.  He is kind to me even though I have dismissed His instructions.  He is not rude to me with snarls and reminders of my weaknesses.  He does not force His rules on me but gives me the freedom to choose to say yes.  He is not irritable with me because He’s exhausted from cleaning up my messes and yours, too. 


While I was His enemy, He pursued me with a hope-filled love.  He held out His hand to me, smiled, and offered His help. 

In Luke chapter 6, Jesus gives us radical relationship instructions. 

27 “Love your enemies.  Do good to those who hate you.  28 Bless those who curse you.  Pray for those who abuse you.”  35 “But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.  36 Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.” 

There it is in verse 35:  “He is kind to the ungrateful and the evil.”  You and me, we are the ungrateful, evil ones, and He is merciful.  He is kind to us. 

The one who hurt me has seemed so ungrateful for my kindness and support.  I will be merciful.  I will be kind. 

I am choosing to see this enemy as God’s little girl, hurt and walled off emotionally.  When I do, she looks much like I once felt and still do at times. 

I am choosing to take my ugly thoughts about her into the obedience of Christ; the obedience of praying for her and blessing her.  (Luke 27-36) 
I have more peace.  

The greatest challenge of my life is choosing to commune with God with everything I am, learning to receive His wild, but abundant love, then flinging it joyfully in people’s direction.”  
Mary DeMuth, “Wall Around Your Heart



Jennifer White pursues God in prayer with the Bible as her guide.  She leads others to do the same at Prayerfully Speaking.  Being wife to David is her highest calling.  She recently completed her first book, Prayers for new Brides: Putting on the Armor After the Wedding Dress.  #LIVEWONDERSTRUCK with her that God is and does "more than we can ask or imagine" (Ephesians 3:20). #GodAnswers 












 

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

"Stewards of Mystery" by Melissa Driggers


Photo by Amelia Grace Photography


Our tables were close to one another, so it took no intentional effort to overhear the conversation between two women sitting at a nearby table.  It went something like this:


(Woman #1):  “I’m so sorry that you are going through this.  Can I pray for you?"

(Woman #2):  “No thanks, I don’t need to bother God with it.  I know this is as good as it gets.  I just have to learn to cope with it.”

Admittedly, my first thought was to dig into my purse, whip out my anointing oil, and lay hands on this woman (OK, I’m kidding…well, sort of).  Since that might have been a disproportional response and also quite ill-timed, I prayed silently.  Her words hung on me (and haunted me) for the rest of the evening.  My heart ached for her, and I so badly wanted “Woman #2” to believe the truth of the power of prayer.  I wanted to tell her that no problem is a “bother” for God.  He cares about it ALL!   I also wanted her to know that she can "...come boldly unto the throne of grace" (Heb. 4:16), not only to ask for strength to endure her current circumstances but that she can pray boldly that God change her circumstances.  I wanted her to know that this doesn’t have to be as good as it gets.

Driving home, though, I began to sense that familiar conviction-hug from God as He showed me my own heart.  If I’m being honest, the truth is that I often approach my prayer life that way, too, with the same “as good as it gets” mindset.  Sure, I pray, but my expectations regarding prayer are often far too low.  

Do I really believe He moves at the sound of my voice? 

Sometimes, the answer is no.  I can sometimes forget and, even worse, doubt that the God of all Creation, the maker of Heaven and Earth, and the Redeemer of my soul not only hears my prayers but is moved by them.  God has not only told us unequivocally through His Word but has proven it time and time again in my own life that He will allow Himself to be influenced through prayer.  I’m certainly not saying that we are more powerful than He is, and indeed only God can bring change.  He is omnipotent.  He may not do everything we say or ask - He is God, and we are not - yet His Word is clear that our prayers influence Him to move. 

When I shut up the heavens so that there is no rain or command locusts to devour the land or send a plague among my people, if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.  Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayers offered in this place. (2 Chron. 7:13-15, NIV) 

When I pray, His heart hears, and His hand moves.  

Let a man regard us in this manner, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. In this case, moreover, it is required of stewards that one be found faithful.  (1 Cor. 4:1-2, NAS) 

Do you see that?  We are stewards of the mysteries of God.  Wow.  We have been entrusted with the secrets of God, which have yet to be revealed, and we are called to be faithful to pray.  What better gift can we give to one another than influencing the King of Kings to move on our behalf and to speak what is in His heart into being?  If that isn't a call to prayer, I'm not sure what is.

How can I pray for you? 

Melissa is an itinerant speaker/teacher, blogger and author residing in the South.  She is single (although she prefers the term “unclaimed treasure”) and lives with her two children, Henry and Hannah, who are technically canine (ssshhhh… they don’t know they aren’t human).  Her vision and passion for ministry is to shepherd others to the grace, hope, healing, and restoration found only in Jesus Christ!  Through her own life journey, God has transformed her heart, and she has experienced the true meaning of “beauty from ashes”.
You can connect with Melissa through her web site, at www.infieldsofgrace.com.










Friday, August 30, 2013

I Can Trust God


Photo by Melissa Haas

I Can Trust God 

By Melissa Haas 

I can trust God, and I am totally dependent on Him for my needs. 

Does this statement ring true for you?  Sometimes the best way to gauge our level of trust is to think about times when the opposite of trust or faith rules our hearts. When we are not trusting, we live in fear, and when we are afraid, we usually do one of three things:  We become immobilized, we run away, or we try to gain/regain control of the situation.   

I’m curious.  How do you normally respond to the fears in your life? 

Fear in itself is not bad.  There are indeed things we should be afraid of—like the spitting cobra that found its way onto our front porch in Kenya one time or a tornado touching down near your home.  When we are in physical danger, fear lets us know that we need to get out of there and soon!  God gave us the ability to feel fear, and He understands when we are afraid.  In fact, He even tells us to fear Him.   

Being afraid, then, is not sinful, but sometimes the way we respond to our fears is offensive to God.  Let me give you an example.  

Remember back to the time of Moses.  God had delivered the Israelites from the bondage of Egypt, parted the Red Sea for them to pass, fed them and gave them water as they journeyed through the wilderness, and dwelt among them, leading them with a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night.  At this point in the journey, the Israelites had arrived at the border of Canaan.  At last the Promised Land was in sight!  God told Moses to send out spies so that they could give testimony to the fertileness and bounty of the land.  The spies went out and came back.  They reported that the land was indeed flowing with milk and honey, but there was a problem - There were giants in the land! (Numbers 13-14)  What did the people feel when they heard the report?   

The Bible says in Numbers 14:1-4 that all of the people “raised their voices and wept aloud.”  They grumbled against Moses and God, saying, “If only we had died in Egypt!  Or in the desert!  Why is the Lord bringing us to this land only to let us fall by the sword?  Our wives and children will be taken as plunder.  Wouldn’t it be better for us to go back to Egypt?” and they said to each other, “We should choose a leader and go back to Egypt.” 

Wow!  Crazy Israelites!  What were they thinking?!  God had delivered them miraculously from the hands of an evil pharaoh.  He had preserved their lives and parted the Red Sea, and He had cared for them all the way to the fulfillment of His promise.  Here they were, ready to go back to being slaves!  What’s up with that?  Couldn’t they see that God was trustworthy, that they could depend on Him to meet all of their needs?  Couldn’t they see that the Sovereign Lord of the universe loved them and had blessings and life in His plans for them?   

Of course, we would never trade bondage for life over a few measly giants, or would we? 

My friend and sister, failing to depend on God for your needs always results in bondage. When we take our lives into our own hands, we always fail, and it’s so easy to make excuses for our failures.  It’s so easy to bug out and go back to Egypt.  If we will take our eyes off the giants for just a few moments and raise them to look at an even bigger God, we will hear Him speak words of courage and peace. 

God, I’m afraid.  Do not fear.  I am with you.

God, I’m so lonely.  I will never leave you nor forsake you. 

No one knows me.  I knit you together in your mother’s womb. 

No one really loves me.  I laid down My life for you.   

I can’t do this, Lord!  You can do all things through My strength. 

I’m too broken to be fixed.  Nothing is impossible with Me. 

You let me down, God.  My ways are not your ways. 

I’m tired of it all.  Come to Me, and I will give you rest.

I will never be free!   If I set you free, you will be free indeed! 

There are lots of fears that rule our hearts and lives, fears that must be entrusted to the Faithful One.  Take some time today and let Him comfort your fears.  Lean back against His chest, take a deep breath, and tell Him out loud, “I trust You, Father, and I am totally dependent on You for everything I need.


Melissa Haas currently serves as the Director of Restoration Groups for HopeQuest, a ministry group in Woodstock, Georgia, which helps people struggling with life-dominating issues.  Melissa began her service in ministry in 1993 as an international missionary to Kenya, East Africa, where she and her husband Troy worked as church planters among the Turkana people.  When a significant marital crisis ended their missionary service, Melissa and Troy began a journey of healing and restoration that now serves as the foundation of their ministry to others.  Passionate about spiritual community, healthy marriages, and intimacy with God, Melissa regularly facilitates small groups and teaches and speaks on these topics in order to help the Body of Christ grow relationally with God and each other.  Melissa and Troy and their three children reside in Woodstock, Georgia.