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By
Valorie
Burton
Do you rely on just one good friend? What would it take to nurture
a few more close friendships? Why do you think some women are competitive with
other women, but not the men? What can you do to put other women at ease and
facilitate more authentic connections with women in your circle of
influence?
I want to share a special conversation starter with you from my
latest book Happy Women Live
Better: 13 Ways to Trigger Your Happiness Every Day. See
the six specific types of friends every woman should have and
spark up a conversation with your closest girlfriends this week to discuss what
type of friend you may be.
Points to
Ponder
·
Studies show
that it is a good idea to have several types of friends rather than relying on
one or two to meet all of your needs.
·
Statistically
speaking, your relationship with your girlfriends will likely outlast your
marriage, your parents and your co-workers.
- One study showed that when fewer than 15% of the women in a firm were in positions of power, the women were competitive and backstabbing with each other. But when women represented more than 15% of the powerful positions, women were collaborative.
Do you have the right mix of
friends?
Not every friend can meet
every need. Some will meet more than one need, but few can do it all! Here are
six types of friends every woman needs:
The Wise Friend.
You can count on them to talk
you out of doing something you'd regret, help you solve your latest dilemma,
and give all-around sound advice about just about anything.
The Fun Friend.
Want to have a good time, be
adventurous, or laugh 'til your stomach hurts? You can always count on this
one.
The Travel Buddy.
Drama-free, this friend is
adaptable, maybe even adventurous, and loves to see the world.
The Relationship Coach.
Transparent, real and willing
to listen, this friend has figured a few things out in the love department and
genuinely wants to see you happy when it comes to romance.
The Career Comrade.
You share a similar
background and goals in your work life, and encourage each other to higher
professional success.
The Accountability Partner.
To maximize your potential,
this is your go-to pal to help keep you on track.
Now, let's turn the tables.
Think of your four closest friends. Which type of friend are you to each of
them?
This post is an excerpt from my latest book, Happy Women Live Better: 13 Ways to Trigger Your Happiness Every Day. Discover your happiness triggers for FREE at www.happywomantest.com and order your copy of Happy Women Live Better at: www.bn.com/happywomenlivebetter
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